I AM SMRITI RAI

Jacket @Adidas Trouser @Zara Trainer @Adidas Photographed by Manju K Rai

Follow my blog with Bloglovin "Don't worry about what people are thinking about you because they are too busy what you are thinking about them" I remember that I used to write this quote everywhere, when I was in around grade 5. It meant something to me back then but I didn't grasp the true meaning until now.  My momma was and is a worrier and I am the same, most of us women are! I have realised that big quotes are helpful but small actions can definitely build into your happiness. When some habit is instilled in your routine and mind for a long time,  you wont even realise that it is unhealthy for you.  But we can make few changes and work towards letting go of things that we are not able to control and trust that everything happens for a reason. Change does not happen overnight. You have to constantly work on it. Build your new habit and let go of your old ones. Most of the days we are repeating the same task anyway. So, just make one ...

So, there was a time, when I used to feed myself with all the glamorous 'mainstream' magazines and get bought into the things that I was not interested in... My wardrobe would be full of clothing that I would never wear, bags that I would never carry and most of all the heels that I would never walk in...For sure, I was walking in the wrong direction!   I did not know my style.  I was more interested in what other people were wearing.  Basically, doubting myself. I had this very 'attached' relationship with what I used to wear...I guess that mainly comes from the doubt!   After, considering several styles and transitioning from different phases, now, I am really happy with how I carry myself and express myself, mainly because I have realised that clothing is merely a tool to express yourself. As  before, I used think that the way I dress completely defines me. But it does not.  It is all about being comfortable, creative and therefore,...