Comparison

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These days everything is easy to compare- houses, phones, travel destination and what not! With social media, it is easier for us to even compare our emotions: happiness, sadness!
Why do we compare our pain?
Someone else has it worse than me! so I should feel grateful! but really, the feelings that I feel are the feelings that I feel! I should allow myself to feel it, completely...no?

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